This question is one I've heard many times, not just in the blogs, but also from friends who have grappled with the same issue.
Because my husband and I had reached our decision on this early on, I never really considered the repercussions of having decided differently. I'd like to hear what you have to say on this subject, and I'm sure there are many other prospective adoptive parents who would also like to hear everyone's opinions.
Special call to transracial adoptees - please add your thoughts. Comment anonymously if you're uncomfortable posting on an a-parent blog, but I hope you'll share your feelings and experiences.
So here's the question:
Is it appropriate for transracial adoptees to be only children or the only child in the family with their ethnicity?