Well. Where do I even begin?
How about I start with what I should have posted a week ago: Happy New Year to everyone! Whatever holidays you may celebrate, I hope they were filled with all good things.
Ours certainly was. We went to Ohio for a few days, not as long as usual, but packed with family and lots of fun. I honestly can't believe the holidays are behind us already; they just flew by. We still haven't taken our decorations down, but plan on getting everything put away by the weekend. I don't really want to, but I guess it's time.
No, I haven't found new employment yet. But it's OK. I've reconciled myself to the fact that this will take a bit of time - just hopefully not the better part of the year. I'm blanketing the earth with resumes, and have spent a lot of time working on mine to improve it. Turned out that part of our severance is quite a few hours of support from a career transition company with a significant resource library. In addition to a lot of templates and other guides, my - ahem - coach reviewed my resume and offered some good advice on how to improve it. Plus there's a lot online at other sites, too.
So I'm looking. I've actually had a call completely out of the blue about a job that turned out to be more software than telecommunications focused, but it was kind of neat that someone actually saw the resume. I'm targeting companies I'd like to work for, in addition to responding to pretty much every close fit that comes through the boards. Plus networking, of course, although my network isn't what it used to be given that I've been in internal positions for a few years. But I'm digging out contacts, and they're very receptive to sharing my information. So hopefully over time some good possibilities will begin to emerge.
One other good thing: turns out the company pays our medical for 37 weeks. That really helps.
The Girl came home early in December and has already returned to school, but The Boy will be here until the 18th. We all got up at the crack of dawn to take The Girl to the airport on Sunday, and I of course cried like a baby. I'm really questioning the wisdom of having encouraged her to go out there. Yes, I know she needs to live her dream, but honestly, it's hard. Not that I'd ever tell her to come home, mind you. I want her and The Boy to spread their wings. I'm just a little aggravated that The Girl's dream took her so far away.
Speaking of The Boy: he's been hanging around the house a lot, which I'm loving since I'm here. I told him to start running for the hills after The Girl went back since I knew I would be pretty clingy, but he's been a really good sport about it. His new hobby is cooking - he got two Asian cookbooks and the Alton Brown book for Christmas, and it's amazing how much time he spends reading them. He cooked a really interesting Bobby Flay chipotle barbecued flank steak before Christmas that was amazing. What a foodie!
As for adoption: well, I honestly have been so preoccupied with the business at hand that I haven't read a blog or an article or paid a bit of attention to anything in the adoption world since the shoe dropped. I need to get back into the fray, I know, but it probably will take time. Korean Focus is having its annual Lunar New Year celebration on February 6th (all you DC folks, don't miss it!), so that's pulling me back into things a bit. But I just don't have the energy to fight battles right now. Probably makes no sense since I have more time, but it doesn't seem like the best use of my time right now.
I'm trying to keep a normal schedule - still getting up early, hit the job boards, investigate companies and network all morning, take a break for lunch, and then back at it until late afternoon. I need to start exercising again, too; the holidays have taken their toll, oh were there goodies around! It's been so dang cold that I haven't wanted to go outside, but I'll be starting that tomorrow.
Let's see ...
The Girl bought Inglourious Basterds with a gift card; I hadn't seen it so we watched it before she went back. The verdict's out for me. Beginning and end were good, but the middle kind of went on and on. She also made me watch The Hangover - ai yi yi, could a movie be any stupider? I laughed myself silly, though.
No new books this holiday. What are you guys reading? I'm working on Burning Bright by Tracy Chevalier - light, just what I need. Mindless is good in the evenings, so I've been knitting too. I finished an afghan in the most luscious purple color for myself that I'd been working on for about the entire year, and then went on a scarf binge and knitted five different scarfs. One was with ribbon yarn that really came out nicely; it was the same color as the one in the picture. The Girl took one made with faux fur year for a gift exchange, which made me happy. I'm now working on a beautiful afghan for next holiday with this gorgeous yarn called Homespun. I will need to make two of these, one for each brother and family.
So that's the scoop. Now, could you guys catch me up on what's hot in the adoption world?
Happy New Year, Margie. I've been thinking of you and your family and so happy to hear that your holidays went well.
ReplyDeleteI've heard so many good things about The Hangover - how cool that your daughter wanted to watch it with you! :)
I was going to leave a comment today whether you had updated or not - so thanks for the update.
ReplyDeleteI am working on a post of 10 great Canadian books - fiction - but since it isn't quite done - here is one of the books from the list that I think you would enjoy. Our Lady of the Lost and Found by Diane Schomperlain (Sp?) If you can get a copy I think you would enjoy it very much. Trust me - you'll love it.
Me I am reading The House of Mirth by Edith Wharton - what a good book.
My girl has been practising from Mastering the Art of French Cooking,
Glad to hear you are in good spirits. Best of Luck with the job hunt.
UM
I wish you the very best of luck for the New Year and a fabulous dream job too, Margie.
ReplyDeleteJess
happy new year margie.
ReplyDeleteme? same old same old. trying to stop being sick, blogging sometimes, parenting always, working a job I am not so crazy about (but thankful I have), and planning a destination wedding to hawaii..
love to you and all of yours.
I've been knitting too. Hats with ear flaps and fingerless mittens. Getting ready to maybe do a cardigan.
ReplyDeleteAre you doing yoga? I must get back into that. Don't forget to enjoy being out of work too and have fun with your freedom.
Happy New Year!!
lots of love
Kim
Happy New Year!!!! Dear Margie I am glad to see your post.
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year Margie! I am reading Under The Dome by Stephen King-
ReplyDeleteGelukkig Nieuwjaar!
ReplyDeleteSounds very good, Bobby Flay chipotle barbecued flank steak, although I have absolutely no idea what it is.:) (yeah, meat, but that's about it...)
Rereading Wild Swans - Jung Chang, and saw "Precious" yesterday. Haunting.
And: getting stronger.
xxx
Gold-Star days Margie. And your writing glows.
ReplyDeleteWelcome back Margie, happy to hear your voice again. You are strong and healthy. We came home with our daughter in December! I did a password protected blog, if your'e interested I can email. If not, I understand you are on an intense hunt. No new books to recommend, but I always go back to Catch-22, The Grapes of Wrath, and the Poinsonwood Bible. Happy New Year!
ReplyDeleteOH, and in response to unsignedmasterpiece, The House of Mirth is also on my short list of favorites. But not very cheerful.
ReplyDeleteps again, if The Boy needs a killer recipe for bulgogi or bibimbap, you know where to turn. But he will need access to gochujang.
ReplyDeleteWow, Margie to date you have 43 followers, this is a tribute to your writing, to your mission and to YOU.
ReplyDeleteTerra
Hi Margie,
ReplyDeleteI found your via Maryreunited. I am an adoptive parent on a similar journey as yours that you described "From There to Here." I have read a lot of your posts and feel it really speaks to my heart. I think that the adoption industry not only coerces first moms, but it also pulls the wool over the adoptive families eyes as well. when you know nothing about adoption and trust the "professionals" you are working with you believe what they tell you. We thought we were being compassionate and loving and not only creating our own family, but thought we were helping to fulfill the wishes of the first moms. How should I have known any differently? They barely even let you talk to the first moms...let alone really figure out if it is the right thing for them...for you. I selfishly am grateful for my adoptions because I am their mother now too. But I am realizing that there really should be more education on BOTH sides and that adoption reform (financial and social) is something we should all be talking about.
I'm still learning. Thanks!